Brenda,
The answer is both: your marriage not only needs to be legal but it needs to be sacramental.
The main thing is being right with our Lord. Living together in a sexual relationship outside of marriage is wrong and therefore becomes a barrier in your relationship with God and the Church.
God wants us to be close to Him and living in the state of grace, so make the right moves and you will be blessed.
Peace,
Bob Kirby
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