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Emily wrote:

Hi, guys —

Our parish priest recently showed a video on Saint Margaret Marie (or Margaret Mary).
In the video it said that Christ had chosen Margaret Marie as his bride.

  • Does that mean Jesus loves her more then other people?
  • Isn't it true that the whole Catholic Church together is the bride of Christ?
  • Doesn't Jesus love us all equally (but also in a unique way that makes us each special) or
    does he love some more and others less?

Thank you so much for any advice you have. This has really been bothering me. I know this may sound selfish but I want to be just as special in Jesus's Eyes, as everyone else.

I don't want Him to love somebody else more than me.

Thanks,

Emily

  { Does the video I saw on St. Margaret Mary mean Jesus loves her more than other people, like me? }

John replied:

Hi, Emily —

Thank you for your question.

God loves us all equally, however, not all of us respond to that love to the same degree. We all have free will, therefore we all develop different relationships with the Lord. It may appear that God's Love sometimes varies from person to person.

God does call each of us to different ministries or assignments, therefore, the amount of grace that is dispensed fits what we are called to do but this doesn't mean He loves some more than others.

The entire Church is, indeed, the Bride of Christ. St. Paul uses this metaphor in his letter to the Ephesians, (Ephesians 5:22-33) as does St. John in the Book of Revelation (Revelation 19:7, Revelation 21:1-10).

Finally, if you want to develop your relationship with the Lord, you need to do your part. If you want to get to know God, you should start by reading and meditating on His Sacred Word found in Sacred Scripture. Needless to say, you need to live a sacramental life and spend time with Him in prayer.

Concentrate on your relationship with Him and don't worry about other people.

John

Mike replied:

Hi, Emily —

John said:
Needless to say, you need to live a sacramental life and spend time with Him in prayer.

Attending Sunday Mass while regularly receiving the sacrament of Confession would be good.
I've heard some bishops recommend Confession on a monthly basis.

Beside reading the Scriptures, praying the Rosary can be a great way to strengthen your spiritual life and, in my selfish opinion, the Promises of the Rosary alone are worth praying it :-)

Mike

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