Dear David,
Thanks for the question.
I hear your frustration and distress in your situation.
This is a tragedy for many students at every type of university across the country. Too often, students are sent to college with high hopes yet are sold short on their options post-education, not to mention the mound of debt they incur.
This is really not about Catholic education, but the whole university system. Don't let this institutional failure mix with your faith in God. Catholic universities aren't always Catholic: not in their philosophy, theology, or practice, even when they carry the name, Catholic. This is another tragedy.
You need to find a good mentor, someone you trust, who will give you honest advice, even when you don't like it, and try to explore some other options.
You don't need a degree to make a good living. You just need a good work ethic and willingness to do things that people need done. You just have to pray that God shows you the right path and be willing to change course if necessary.
In the end, being Catholic is being a disciple of Jesus Christ, following Him, and doing His will. Let that be the focus of your prayer, and I guarantee your situation will come together; just be patient.
Peace,
Bob Kirby
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