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AJ wrote:

Hi Mike,

I'm not sure if this type of situation has been addressed in your archives; if so, please send me to the appropriate posting(s).

Anyway, I have a sister-in-law who has become increasingly curious about the Catholic Church. She was never baptized, but was raised in a Christian home. We have always talked on and off about Catholicism and I have done my best to answer any questions she has had.

By the Grace of God she has begun to open up even more, and a couple weeks ago mentioned to me that she would like to join RCIA . She expressed a genuine desire to be baptized, and have her union with her husband recognized by the Church.

Last year she got married through the courts to a non-Christian. This gentleman was raised Muslim but does not practice his religion, and has no problem with my sister-in-law going through the RCIA process and becoming Catholic.

The questions are:

  • If she goes ahead and decides to become Catholic, can she receive the Eucharist even though the Church does not recognize their civil union?
  • In other words, is she sinning by living with this gentleman?

She wants to start the process of having her marriage blessed and recognized by the Church as soon as possible.

  • Is this a difficult process?

I would appreciate any advice you might have.

Thank you and God Bless.

AJ

  { If she becomes Catholic but their civil union is not recognized, can she still receive the Eucharist? }

Mike replied:

Hi AJ,

During the RCIA process, she will probably want to make an appointment with the pastor of the parish. I'm assuming that the priest is faithful to the Church where she will be participating in RCIA . He would be able to counsel and help her validate her current marriage in the Church's eyes.

You said:

  • She wants to start the process of having her marriage blessed and recognized by the Church as soon as possible; is this a difficult process?

The process is not difficult and based on what you have said, at most requires a prayerful patience.

If she is interested, or for that matter her Muslim husband is interested, they may wish to consider buying a cheap copy of the Catechism of the Catholic Church to find out what faithful Catholics truly believe.

Hope this helps,

Mike

Mary Ann replied:

Hi, AJ —

Good work and good example!

There is no problem with a Catholic marrying a non-Christian. Of course, the marriage of two
non-baptized persons is a valid non-sacramental marriage.

If someone who is married to a non-Christian wants to become Catholic, and the non-Christian doesn't want him or her to do that — making becoming a Catholic a serious problem — the Pauline privilege would apply, whereby the person seeking to become a Catholic can leave that marriage if he or she wishes to marry in the Lord.

Once your sister-in-law is baptized, she can have her marriage blessed by the Church. On the Easter Vigil, she could receive Baptism, Confirmation, get married, and receive Communion!

As Mike said, the priest would need to counsel her on the steps to be taken.

Mary Ann

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