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Zheng Hoa wrote:

Hi, guys —

  1. What is the Catholic decree for a woman if she is separated from her husband without having taken a legal divorce over many years?

  2. Is it permissible for her within religious laws to have sexual relationship with another man or to marry another man without getting a divorce?

  3. Is there any specific period of separation that makes her free to marry another man without getting a divorce from her ex-husband?

  4. Are women allowed to marry men of other religions like:
    • Jewish
    • Hindu
    • Buddhist
    • Muslim, or
    • Atheist?

Regards,

Zheng Hoa

  { What is sexually permitted for women who have separated from their husband without a divorce? }

John replied:

Hi Zheng,

You said:

  1. What is the Catholic decree for a woman if she is separated from her husband without having taken a legal divorce over many years?

No second marriage can take place until there is a divorce, unless, of course, the other spouse dies.

A divorce is not sufficient by itself. The Church must first examine the first marriage to see if it was a valid Sacramental marriage. If it is found to have been valid, then the person may never remarry so long as the other spouse is still alive. If the Church finds that the first marriage was invalid, then the Church grants an annulment.

In order for an annulment to be granted, the Church must determine that, for some pre-existing condition present at the time of the marriage, either spouse was unable to enter into the Sacrament. There are several reasons why annulments are granted. These include:

  • serious emotional immaturity of the persons when making their vow
  • impotence, and/or
  • a refusal to have children

The key part is: there has to be a pre-existing reason. In other words, something that happens in the marriage, such as infidelity might be cause for divorce, but it is not, by itself, a reason for an annulment.

You said:

  1. Is it permissible for her within religious laws to have sexual relationship with another man or to marry another man without getting a divorce?

It is never permissible to have sex outside the sacrament of marriage. If both people are not married, then it's the sin of fornication. If either person is married, then it's both fornication and adultery.

You said:

  1. Is there any specific period of separation that makes her free to marry another man without getting a divorce from her ex-husband?

It doesn't matter how many years a couple has been separated or even divorced. Sex outside of marriage is always a sin. A second marriage is never possible unless the first marriage is determined to be invalid for some pre-existent impediment.

You said:

  1. Are women allowed to marry men of other religions like:
    • Jewish
    • Hindu
    • Buddhist
    • Muslim, or
    • Atheist?

Marriage to people outside the faith requires a dispensation from the Church. It is allowed, but
I personally don't believe it's advisable, especially if the person you are thinking of marrying is not some type of Christian.

I hope this helps,

John

Richard replied:

John —

I think it would be a good idea to start this answer off with a statement of the principle:

That Marriage between two Christians is a sacrament and is not dissoluble.

Perhaps with a reference to our Lord's teaching in St. Matthew?

— RC

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