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Wondering Will wrote:

Hi, guys —

I am 27-years-old and have been married for five years. We also have three children.

Shortly after our first daughter was born, my wife started having small seizures and finally, after nearly dropping our newborn, she went to the doctor and was diagnosed with a type of epilepsy.

She was put on a medicine that worked well but, after our second daughter was born 15 months later, her seizures returned. They [the seizures] remained small and an increase in her medicine helped for a while. After our son was born, 21 months later, her seizures again returned.

The doctor could not increase her medicine but added another medication that has worked well. This medication has risks of birth defects and her doctor has advised against having more children. My wife and I were thinking of having more children, later on, until this happened.

My question is this:

  • In a situation like this, would it be OK to have a vasectomy?

I know the Church is against any type of birth control and I agree but we worry about her seizures returning and the possible birth defects.

Thank you,

Will

  { Although the Church is against birth control, in this medical quandary, would a vasectomy be OK? }

Mary Ann replied:

Dear Will,

You have both been certainly tested and you have been generous with God. Having a vasectomy would be a mutilation of your procreative faculty, and hence immoral. It would also seriously impair your marital union and it has long-term health effects of the auto-immune variety.

I would advise you to find a teacher of NFP (either Billings, Couple to Couple League, or Creighton - that is the ascending order of technicality). Creighton-trained doctors might help you figure out if there is a hormonal contribution to your wife's problems, which appears to be the case, and how to help. They are trained to diagnose through analysis of the woman's cycle and hormone testing.

In any case, NFP works as well as any contraceptive, and has no health risks. The time to learn is now! You will find much support among the couples that practice it and it is good for marriage.

Go to TheologyoftheBody.net for more explanation of why sterilization is bad and bad for you.

God bless you both.

Mary Ann

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