Stations —

I am not sure if your spouse is Catholic, but as Catholics, we follow Scripture and Tradition
(2 Thessalonians 2:15). To say,

"If it's not in Scripture I don't believe it."

is a Protestant concept.

You don't say whether you or your spouse are male or female. Genesis 38:9-10 would demonstrate pretty clearly that for a man to receive oral sex would be sinful, for Onan died because he wasted his seed (semen).

It would be a little harder to prove that cunnilingus is immoral from one verse but when you consider the whole of Scripture, it becomes clearer.

Eric

Stations —

Genital stimulation between spouses is fine and good as long as it is accompanied by intercourse.
The man must not intentionally ejaculate outside of the woman.

Mary Ann