Hi Juan,
Thanks for the question.
You said:
I have a doubt regarding this second paragraph.
It talks about the things a pastor has to take
into consideration to determine:
- the
gravity of each sin for each particular
case set before him, and
- the way he ought
to deal with the issue.
These things are:
Affective is a fancy word for emotional. An affectively
immature person is adolescent in their way of thinking and hasn't learned to understand
the true role of sexuality and the importance of chastity. He has immature views of women and unrealistic expectations of how images of them can satisfy what he yearns for. An affectively immature person might rely on pornography for his masturbation, objectifying women
in picture-perfect (and unrealistic) form.
You said:
I have a doubt regarding this second paragraph.
It talks about the things a pastor has to take
into consideration to determine:
- the
gravity of each sin for each particular
case set before him, and
- the way he ought
to deal with the issue.
These things are:
This means the person is addicted to masturbation to some extent.
For example,
John masturbated several times a week since he was eleven years old, until
college when he realized he needed to stop but when he tried, he could
not. The habit was too much ingrained and he felt compelled to do it. Moral
theology tells us that for a sin to be mortal, it must be freely chosen.
Compulsions and addictions are of their nature not free acts, thus lower
culpability. Pastorally, it's important to be compassionate to, and patient
with, those who struggle with addictions and compulsions. The right approach
is to encourage the penitent to keep fighting and not give up, and not
dwell too much on failures.
You said:
I have a doubt regarding this second paragraph.
It talks about the things a pastor has to take
into consideration to determine:
- the
gravity of each sin for each particular
case set before him, and
- the way he ought
to deal with the issue.
These things are:
Anxiety — worry for example — can trigger a compulsion to masturbate
or at least make one more inclined to it. Say John has a test coming up
and he know he doesn't know the material. He begins to worry about it a
lot; this causes an unusual urge to masturbate. Again, a compulsion would
reduce culpability. The pastoral action would be to take it easy on the
kid, especially if there is a track record of avoiding masturbation under
normal circumstances.
Hope this helps,
Eric
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