Christine,
Good question.
First, I must say that liturgy means work
of the people or public work so one can not have private liturgy apart
from the Church's liturgies, which include, preeminently, the Mass.
There is no such thing as freelance on our own liturgy so the nun's
use of that term is a clue to what she intends by this celebration. Another
clue is the fact that she is doing this on Sunday.
Second, I would recommend that you simply ask her what she means by this
action.
- Is she blessing the bread and wine?
- What does she understand
by what she is doing?
- If she just wants to share bread and wine, why
doesn't she just have a little meal of bread and wine and cheese and
olives, etc.?
Thirdly, you of course, can attend this affair if she means
it as a Scripture study and a party.
If she means it as a quasi-Mass, you
may not, even if you have already been to Mass but you can come for the
Scripture study and leave before the phony eucharist (otherwise
you are participating in a deliberately heretical assembly). You would have a duty
to correct any misperceptions about Catholic teaching and to bring authentic
Catholic teaching to the group.
If you find out that she is:
- playing priestess
- substituting this for
Mass, or
- even that her beliefs are contrary to Catholic belief
then you
should not endorse the affair by your attendance.
You could, in that case,
start your own Scripture reflection program on Sundays. You have a right
to pay attention to your uncomfortable feelings and to act on them and
get some clarity so that you can know what you are doing.
If you had gone
to a political meeting, and were suspicious that it was a front for some
terrorist or revolutionary group, you would either find out, or not go.
Mary Ann
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