Hi, Chris —
Let's start with the proper understanding
of conscience.
Following one's conscience doesn't
mean deciding for oneself what is
right or wrong.
St. Paul tells us in Romans 1, that what can be known about
God, can be known through his creation
so we are without excuse.
God has written the natural law in
the heart of every man so even if
he doesn't have specific Revelation,
he knows right and wrong.
The conscience is the place in our
being where we hear God speak to
us and where we decide to:
- obey or disobey
- to believe or to doubt, and
- to have faith and not block God
out.
We are all called to be constantly
forming our conscience. A Catholic
is called to form his conscience
according to the Teaching and guidance
of the Magisterium.
The probability that there is zero
guilt, is highly unlikely. If a Catholic
knows it's a sin in the eyes of the
Church, then he at least knows that
the Church has some authority and
understanding beyond his own. More
often than not, the person is simply
rejecting the Church's teaching,
because it's not convenient. After
all, we are all sinners, and our
tendency, because of original sin,
is to want to sin.
On the other hand, some times we
do struggle.
- We either don't understand the
Church's teaching.
- The teaching is difficult to
follow, or
- Sometimes circumstances make the
situation look gray, not black
or white.
Ultimately, if the person knows the
Church says something is wrong then
(he or she) knows, deep down, that
it is indeed wrong.
Rather than focusing on culpability
and sin, I recommend focusing on
mercy and grace. If you are struggling
to obey a Church teaching, don't
focus on trying to find an excuse,
focus on Christ.
Focus on what He has done for you
and allow Him to form your conscience.
John
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