Hi Deacon Gary,
Your question is out of our realm of knowledge. The closest document that deals with questions like your is:
Redemptionis Sacramentum — Section VII
On certain matters to be observed or to be avoided regarding the Most Holy Eucharist
After reading section VII, I would recommend you get some guidance from either your local priest or bishop. By the tone of the section, you can tell this is a sensitive area where things have to be done properly as to avoid scandal.
Maybe Fr. Jonathan has an opinion.