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Fiona B. wrote:

Hi guys,

I am really confused.

Are you allowed to pray for selfish reasons?

I have lost stock of how many times I have prayed for myself:

  • for my successes
  • for peace of mind, and
  • for my health

and God has been kind to me and given me everything. I am so lucky to have so much and yet I find myself praying to Him again and again, wanting more and more.

  • Is praying for the fulfillment of your personal ambitions and career successes a bad thing?
  • Should I stop asking for so much, stop pushing myself so much, and just be happy with what I have?
  • How do I know what God wants?

Thank you very much,

Fiona

  { Are you allowed to pray for selfish reason? }

Mike replied:

Hi, Fiona —

There is no problem at all with praying for what you wish. The Lord enjoys hearing us ask for our needs. It is a witness to our trust in His Divine Providence.

Whether you are praying for personal needs, success, peace of mind, health, or whatever as long as we accept His Answer, which in some cases, will:

  • lack success
  • lack a peace of mind
  • lack health, or whatever.

If the Lord says, No, to a petition, we know it is for either our own good or the good of the Church and the salvation of souls.

Soooo, as long as it is for a good intention, keep praying for whatever your wish!!

Cases of ill intentions would include:

  • God please kill my sister for hitting me.
  • God please get rid of my enemies, so I don't have to pray for them.
  • God please make something bad happen to my boss or that guy I hate at work.

You said:

  • How do I know what God wants?

A solid prayer life with guide you to His Will.

Hope this helps,

Mike

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