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Lisa Jensen wrote:

Hi, guys —

I was raised Catholic, have been baptized, and made my First Communion and Confirmation.

My husband has only been baptized Catholic. We were married last year on the beach in Jamaica. We are hoping to have children soon but I am concerned that because we were not married in a Catholic church, my children will not be accepted nor allowed to receive the sacraments as I did.

  • Is this correct, and if so:
  • Is there anything that I can do to change this?

We want to make things right for our future family.

Thanks very much for any insight you can provide!

Lisa

  { As a Catholic not married in the Church, will my future children be accepted by the Church? }

Mike replied:

Hi, Lisa —

Thanks for the question.

Your concern is justified.

  • Why?

Because faithful Catholics have to be married in the Church. Marriage is a sacramental celebration that sacramentally bonds a man and woman for life. Marriage prep is important because it goes over what is expected by society and the Church from the couple.

Being a practicing Catholic is so important in today's culture, because most cultures around the world are, not only anti-Christian but, anti-Catholic in its values. It takes real courage to be a practicing Christian and to stand up for what you believe as a Catholic couple. You shouldn't be scared though. The Lord will be with you and your husband at every moment of your life's together through the sacraments of the Church and prayer . . . even in very tough times.

You said:

  • Is there anything that I can do to change this?

Yes! Once you and your husband decide on where you want to settle down and raise your family, make an appointment at a local Catholic parish with a priest known for his holiness and faithfulness to the Church.

He will be able to guide and assist you in getting your marriage blessed by the Church and ensure that every one in your family has received the appropriate sacraments.

Hope this helps,

Mike

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