Jaya —
Moving in with your boyfriend would give scandal
to others (causing them to believe that you were
cohabiting, and giving a bad example). It would also
put you and your boyfriend in constant temptation.
Your marriage deserves the sacrifice of separate
living. It would also enable both of you to get to
know each other better than in a long distance
relationship, without the problems of the nitty gritty
of daily life. These problems, by themselves, can
be enough to deal with, even without
the grace of the married state.
Mary Ann
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