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ConfusedAboutMyCousinsBaptism wrote:

Hi, guys —

Here's a strange one.

I was asked to baptize a second cousin of mine upon a request of my grandmother, who is more concerned with showing off than with true Catholic practices.

I was put on the spot, and led to believe that the child had not been previously baptized. There was also the added fact that the child had a rough time coming into this world and was sickly and unhealthy. For that reason, I baptized the child with water and the right form for Baptism.

I have now found out that a priest had given the child an emergency Baptism at birth. Add to that, my grandmother and the mother of the child have asked me to be the Godfather and take part in a Christening they have scheduled coming up very soon.

What do I do?

ConfusedAboutMyCousinsBaptism

  { If my cousin is already baptized, what should I do if I've been asked to participate in another one? }

Eric replied:

Dear Confused,

You're right, this is a strange one!

Lay people are permitted to baptize only in danger of death, or when so delegated by a priest.
To the degree that you were aware of this, your Baptism was irregular — if in fact you were — I'd encourage you to discuss it with a priest in Confession.

You said:
Add to that, my grandmother and the mother of the child have asked me to be the Godfather and take part in a Christening . . .

Turning to your present situation, it depends on the nature of the Christening. Typically a Christening is a Baptism. If it is a full Baptism, I'd have no part of it, as it would be invalid.

However, when emergency Baptisms are done, follow-up rites are also done to complete the Baptism. Essentially, everything but the actually pouring of the water and invocation of the Trinity are done. Perhaps this is what is meant by christening.

If this is so, then you can be a Godfather, assuming:

  • you practice your faith
  • are not canonically impeded, and
  • are willing to take seriously the obligation to see to this child's Catholic education should something happen to the parents.

Eric

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