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Robert H.
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Hi, guys —
In Matthew 19:12 Jesus tells us that self-made
eunuchs are accepted into Heaven. Because
my sexual feelings have been my Achilles
heel, I am planning to get castrated within
a year and will be a male eunuch who seeks
spiritual enlightenment.
In short, I have mental problems; mostly sexual
ones. This orchiectomy will be a fifteen minute
operation. I learned that I can't receive Communion
after the operation, according to an amendment
from the Council of Nicea in the fifth century.
I need support from my Church as I'm getting
the operation regardless of the official Vatican
position.
In my opinion, their position is
relative anyway and could change in four hundred
years.
Thank you,
Robert
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Regardless of the Church, how do you view castrating myself in order to seek holy enlightenment? }
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Mary
Ann replied:
Robert —
The Church has always taught that
we may not mutilate ourselves. We
may not destroy or incapacitate or
compromise any bodily function unless
health or survival depend on it,
and, only then, in proportion to
the benefit gained. God calls us
to be free and full human beings,
who can use our reason, with the
aid of grace, to control our inordinate
desires.
If you are truly repentant after
such a deed as the one you are contemplating,
you can confess the sin and be restored
to receiving Communion but true repentance
is the key.
In the Scripture you reference, Christ
refers to those who become eunuchs
for the sake of the kingdom, and
says that he who is able to
accept it, let him accept it.
It is therefore clear he is speaking
about voluntary celibacy, not self-castration,
because the activity he speaks of,
is something that:
- is undertaken for
the kingdom
- is something that
is a calling, and
- difficult to bear.
Mary Ann
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Eric
replied:
Hi, Robert —
Generally Matthew 19:12 is understood
as a eunuch in a spiritual sense,
i.e., one who renounces marriage.
Castration would fall under the category
of self-mutilation, which would be
forbidden.
You also have to be very careful
with surgical castration since no
reputable doctor will do one except
in the context of sex reassignment.
There is no spiritual enlightenment
that comes with castration. In fact,
you are deprived of the graces and
rewards that come with battling sexual
temptations. You can't expect an award
for valor or a Purple Heart from
God if you never went into battle.
Sexual temptations are a means of
attaining purity.
I am not sure what you mean by my
sexual feelings have been my Achilles
Heel. I think this is true
for a lot of people, if not most
people. I can't judge whether your
struggle with sexual issues is harder
than anyone else's; I can just say
that nearly everyone struggles with
sexual issues to a significant degree,
and a great many struggle to an overwhelming
degree so don't be discouraged simply
because you have sexual issues; everyone
does. You should consult a psychiatrist
for many months before going through
with this (not that it's acceptable
if a psychiatrist endorses it).
Remember a few things:
- This operation is irreversible.
- You need to consult a psychiatrist
and a reputable doctor (not the
one who would do the operation)
long beforehand, to establish
the side effects.
- This will inhibit, not enhance,
your spiritual enlightenment.
Eric
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Robert
H. replied:
Hi guys,
Let me give you more detail. I am a 63-year-old cradle Catholic heterosexual
with mental problems. I have been
in therapy since 1995 when I quit
drinking and smoking after thirty
years. I have, since I broke up
with my girlfriend of eleven years
in 2002, and had no sex. I suffer
from obsessive thoughts of young
girls, i.e., the lolita syndrome
as I call it. I also suffer from
depression and am tired of the occasional rage or
tantrums when I lose my temper.
I have been considering being a eunuch
for two years. In Matthew 19:12,
Jesus tells us that we, who make
ourselves eunuchs, can still get
to the kingdom of Heaven. I firmly
believe Jesus was talking about eunuchs,
not priests. He referred to born
eunuchs, eunuchs made by men and
didn't talk about priests.
- Why does the Church think that
He was referring to priests in
the third part of that sentence?
Anybody can read something figuratively
and make it fit their own beliefs.
Jesus said that self-made eunuchs
can go to Heaven and this sentence
must be taken literally since this
is what He said.
Robert
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Eric
replied:
OK, let's look at the verse. Starting
at verse 8-12:
He said to them,
8 Because of your hardness
of heart Moses permitted you to
divorce your wives; but from the
beginning it has not been this
way. 9 And I say to you, whoever
divorces his wife, except for
immorality, and marries another
woman commits adultery." 10 The
disciples said to Him, "If
the relationship of the man with
his wife is like this, it is better
not to marry." 11 But
He said to them, "Not all
men can accept this statement,
but only those to whom it has
been given. 12 "For there are
eunuchs who were born that way
from their mother's womb; and
there are eunuchs who were made
eunuchs by men; and there are
also eunuchs who made themselves
eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom
of Heaven. He who is able to accept
this, let him accept it."
Matthew 19:8-12 |
The context is Jesus's strict teachings
on marriage, and the Apostle's reply
that, if that is so,
it is better not to marry. So
the context is celibacy: the voluntary
choice not to marry.
Jesus replies,
Not everyone can accept
this word, but only those to whom
it has been given.
- What word is he talking about? "It
is better not to marry."
- What
does "but only those to whom
it has been given" mean?
He's
referring to a vocation, a call and
grace from God. So, not only is he
talking about celibacy, he's talking
about a vocation of celibacy given
by God.
Then he goes on to discuss eunuchs,
beginning For. Now when
you see a For, you should
always ask what it's there for. It
means He's about to link what he
just said about the vocation of celibacy
to what He is about to say.
Now He
discusses the term eunuch in
three senses.
- One, those who are
born malformed in some way that has
the effect of preventing reproduction.
- Then he discusses "others were
made that way by men." Here
he is referring to true eunuchs;
the castrated.
- Finally he discusses "eunuchs
who made themselves eunuchs for the
sake of the kingdom of Heaven." This
kind of "eunuchhood" involves
renouncing marriage for the kingdom
of Heaven. In other words, those
with a vocation to celibacy, as he
was discussing earlier.
Note that He is distinguishing these
men from the castrated ones.
He is laying out three categories:
- those malformed at birth
- those who are castrated, and
- those who have a vocation to
celibacy.
Finally he says, "He who is
able to accept this, let him accept
it." He is referring here to
the last category: the vocation to
celibacy which he discussed earlier.
Remember what He said earlier: Not
everyone can accept this word.
- What word?: "It is better
not to marry."
If what you are arguing is true — that
Jesus is not referring to the vocation
of celibacy but to castration — you
have to believe that Jesus is arguing
that every man, if he can accept
it, should be castrated. This makes
no sense.
- Where does the priesthood come in?
Well, in the Latin Rite and western
countries, the norm for priests is
to take them from those who have
a vocation to celibacy. This verse
would also apply equally well to
monks, however.
So to sum up, the context, which
starts off by addressing the question
of divorce and Jesus's strict views
on monogamy, is that of whether it
is better off to marry or not. Jesus
says it is better not to marry, and
then discusses three types of eunuchs,
distinguishing those he is talking
about [those who are eunuchs
for the kingdom of Heaven]
from the castrated and malformed.
Then he urges anyone who can accept
a vocation to celibacy to do so.
Castration has never been accepted
by the Church as a valid way to serve
God. It has always been condemned
as mutilation. In fact, there is
one individual, Origen, who was well-known
and well-respected in his day, except
that he castrated himself. He was
never made a saint, despite being
equal to many saints, possibly due
in part to his castration. Anyway,
no one, of any respected opinion
in the history of the Church, has
ever read that verse as you are reading
it.
In the Old Testament,
those who were castrated were excluded
from the assembly of the Lord, so
Jesus would not have recommended
that. With respect to your comment
about interpreting this, let me ask
you a question:
- Which is more likely to be correct,
your personal interpretation or
the one handed down from the Apostles
and believed universally in the
Church throughout its whole existence?
- By what authority do you decide
against overwhelming odds that
you are correct?
- Are you a Scripture scholar?
- Are you a history scholar?
- Have you studied ancient Judaism?
- What degrees do you have?
You said:
. . . this sentence
must be taken literally since this
is what He said.
To this I challenge
you:
When you have cut off your hands
and your feet and plucked out your
eyes, then you can go and get castrated.
- What does your psychologist/therapist
think of your plans?
Eric
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Robert
H. replied:
Hi, Eric —
You have convinced me.
I did not bring up the Matthew verse
regarding cutting off the hand because
it's interpretation is obvious in
relation to this issue and I assumed
you knew it. I have degrees in Sociology
and a graduate degree in Environmental
Science. I am not, never have, nor
ever will be a
perfect Catholic but
I do ask questions.
My generation was a question
authority generation so I'm
just a product of this generation.
God Bless you, Merry Christmas, and thank you for
your time and effort.
I hope I didn't put you out from
your day too much.
Robert
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