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Dear, Anna —
Let me apologize on behalf of the
Catholic Church for the insensitivity
of this priest, according the facts
you've related.
If you were Catholic, and married
outside the Church, that marriage
was not valid. That is why your ex-husband
received the annulment. Since the
annulment applies to the marriage,
not to one spouse, you also have
an annulment, leaving you free to
marry in the Church. (Of course you
need to have documentation, which
I assume they sent you.)
This is assuming there are no other
marriages on your part. Since we
don't speak for the Church none of
this is official. What you should
do is go to Confession, explaining
the situation to the priest, and
say you'd like to return to the Church.
If you are not now married, there
should be no problem returning immediately.
If you are married, you'll need to
secure a copy of the annulment and
get your marriage convalidated (or
blessed) before returning to the
sacraments. You should also live
as brother and sister with your husband
until this is resolved. If you do
this, you may be able to return to
the sacraments immediately; again
consult the priest.
Finally, nothing prevents you from
attending Mass, indeed you should.
You just can't receive the sacraments
until you go to Confession and receive
clearance to do so.
Anyway, while it may be premature,
let me say: Welcome back!
Eric
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