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TryingToHelp Theresa wrote:

Hi, guys —

My brother divorced his wife about a year ago. 

She left their child (at the time he was 2 1/2 years old) with him and our family. She committed adultery several times before, during, and after the marriage.  He did not find this out until she left him. She now has had a baby girl with another man and refuses to take her son to Church.  Basically, this woman refuses anything that is of sound mind and faithful.

  • How can my brother get an annulment of this marriage through the Church?
  • Also, seeing my brother does not have a lot of money and neither do we as a family, is there any Church lawyer that can help him get full custody of his son?

Theresa

  { Since she refuses to meet his son's needs, how can my brother get an annulment and full custody? }

Mike replied:

Hi, Theresa —

Your brother has to make an appointment with the pastor at his local parish. The pastor can start the process of seeing whether an annulment is feasible.

If you are looking for a Church lawyer, I would try the St. Joseph Foundation.  They may be able to help and if they can't, they can probably recommend someone or some organization who can.

As with all things, the best thing you can do is keep praying for all parties involved; especially those who have hurt you. Remember Our Blessed Lord tells us to pray for our enemies. (Matthew 5:44)

Hope this helps,

Mike

Eric replied:

Hi, Theresa —

The Church Herself does not generally provide lawyers to people to defend or prosecute civil or criminal cases, although there may be some local church-related organizations that might help out with this. If so, I'm not familiar with them.

Mike mentioned the St. Joseph Foundation but they handle canonical cases, not civil cases which is what you're referring to.

You could try contacting your local diocese or Catholic Charities, but I'm thinking for a custody case, they probably wouldn't provide a lawyer.

Eric

Mary Ann replied:

Hi, Theresa —

Legal Aid might be able to help your brother. The local parish priest can start the annulment process.

I am sorry to hear about your troubles.

Mary Ann

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