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R.G. wrote:

Hi, guys —

My wife and I, both Catholic since birth, have been married for 27 years. We were married by a Justice of the Peace and never had our marriage blessed by the Church. Recently in a sermon,
our pastor stated that if a couple was not married in the Church, they should not come forward to receive the Eucharist.

  • If the Church requires a valid marriage license and recognizes marriage outside the Church, then why is the pastor saying we are living in a state of sin?

We have raised our boys as Catholics and go to Sunday Mass regularly.

Thank you for your response.

R.G.

  { Why is the pastor saying we are living in sin, if the Church recognizes marriage outside Church? }

Paul replied:

Dear R.G.,

The Church does recognize the validity of marriage outside the Church — for those who are
non-Catholic.
Since both of you are baptized Catholics, your situation is very different.

The priest is right, civil marriages of Catholics outside of the Church are not valid.

Coming up to receive Holy Communion, while living in such a union, is objectively a sacrilege. That being said, since you seem sincerely ignorant of this, there may not be any guilt for you up to this point.

Please make an appointment with your pastor to talk to him about your situation; and don't receive Holy Communion until or unless your situation is rectified.

Paul

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