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Jeme Imoniovu wrote:

Hi, guys —

I am Catholic and come from a strict Catholic upbringing, so much so my dad is an ordained Knight.

Recently I was asked by a man I've known for a while to marry him. The problem is he's not a Catholic — he's a Pentecostal pastor and a divorcee.

  • Is it right to marry such a man?
  • Would I be committing a sin if I agreed to marry him?

Jeme

  { Is it right for a Catholic to marry a Pentecostal pastor who is also a divorcee? }

Eric replied:

Jeme —

If his ex-wife is still alive, he would need an annulment before you could marry him in the Church. This establishes that his previous marriage was not a true marriage from the beginning for some reason.

In addition, marrying a non-Catholic, especially to a Pentecostal preacher, brings several hazards. There will probably be pressure to leave the Catholic Church and join his church. For a Pentecostal preacher to have a Catholic wife would be a bit of an embarrassment.

Plus he would have to agree to let you raise the kids in the Catholic Church, something unlikely given his vocation. The normal friction between a Catholic and a non-Catholic spouse will be magnified by the fact he is a minister. This is not therefore a matter of sin (unless you married him without an annulment outside the Catholic Church) but of prudential judgment.

Eric

Jeme replied:

Thank you Eric,

Your reply has really opened my eyes to a lot.

  • Would the annulment have to be from from the Church?

I ask because he was married by the state and the state has since annulled the marriage.

  • Is this acceptable?

He was married once and I'm trying to see if he can return back, otherwise I'm afraid there won't be any marriage.

Jeme from Etisalat

Eric replied:

Hi, Jeme —

Yes, the annulment would have to be from the Church.

An annulment from the state is not acceptable.

Eric

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