Tina,
I am happy that you are exploring entering the Church and you seem to be doing it with the right spirit.
From what I know from your question:
- You are not a Catholic.
- You are currently in your second marriage.
- Your first husband was a Catholic who had been married before.
- Your marriage to your first husband was not in the Church because he would have needed an annulment for that.
Therefore, from what you have told me it would seem that your first marriage was invalid.
You will need to meet with a priest and verify everything you have said but if your story is complete then you don't need an annulment; rather you would need what is called a Lack of Form case.
To do a Lack of Form case you will need:
- the Marriage Certificate from your first marriage
- a divorce decree, and
- proof that he was a Catholic (So try to figure out where he would have been baptized.)
You didn't tell me the situation with your current husband.
- Was he ever married before?
- If your current husband was also married before then we have to figure out his marital situation before you can enter.
- If your current husband was never married before and all the above is the complete story then you are good to go.
I think you should make an appointment and sit down with a priest.
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Fr. Jonathan
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