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"Could I Pursue" Patricia wrote:

Hi, guys —

I am 35-year-old female. I have been a little embarrassed to talk to my priest about my concerns so I thought I would get your advice.

My aunt, by blood (my dad's sister), died. I have become close friends with her widow husband:
my in-law non-blood uncle.

  • Is it wrong in the eyes of God, the Church, and possibly the law to pursue a romantic relationship that could lead to marriage?

Patricia
  { Is it wrong in the eyes of God to pursue this type of romantic relationship if it leads to marriage? }

Bob replied:

Dear Patricia,

There is no moral prescription regarding the circumstances you describe. There may be a negative social effect however. You must weigh the impact such a relationship would have on your extended family and others in your circle.

I would proceed slowly, but not dismiss altogether, the possibility of something coming together.

If you really want to do the right thing, ask God what He wants you to do and follow His Lead. You will have peace in your heart when you follow the Lord.

Peace,

Bob Kirby
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