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Anonymous Widower with Questions wrote:

Hi, guys —

Please provide specific criteria for the "social factors that can lessen, if not even reduce to a minimum, the moral culpability" of masturbation, as stated in 2352 of the Catechism of the Catholic Church.

Offenses against chastity.
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2352 By masturbation is to be understood the deliberate stimulation of the genital organs in order to derive sexual pleasure.

"Both the Magisterium of the Church, in the course of a constant tradition, and the moral sense of the faithful have been in no doubt and have firmly maintained that masturbation is an intrinsically and gravely disordered action." (Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, Persona humana 9)

"The deliberate use of the sexual faculty, for whatever reason, outside of marriage is essentially contrary to its purpose." For here sexual pleasure is sought outside of "the sexual relationship which is demanded by the moral order and in which the total meaning of mutual self-giving and human procreation in the context of true love is achieved." (Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, Persona humana 9)

To form an equitable judgment about the subjects' moral responsibility and to guide pastoral action, one must take into account the affective immaturity, force of acquired habit, conditions of anxiety or other psychological or social factors that lessen, if not even reduce to a minimum, moral culpability.

Catholic Church, Catechism of the Catholic Church, 2nd Ed. (Vatican City: Libreria Editrice Vaticana, 1997), pp. 564–65

Since we are simply to confess our sins in Confession without providing background:

  • How can a person know if the above criteria apply, and whether or not one can receive Communion prior to getting to Confession wondering if a venial or mortal sin had been committed?
  • Secondly, why are procreation and marital unity the only allowable uses of the sexual function?
  • Who decided this criterion and when was it first proclaimed to the Catholic faithful?
  • Other aspects of our physical being provide physical gratification, so why can't there be certain rules that would permit the self-use of the sexual function in certain cases, as implied by the above portion of the Catechism?
  • For example, why is occasional self-use (say once per month) of this function by a widower to address the built-up urge not permitted?

As a widower I have many sleepless hours trying to avoid this sin via:

  • prayer,
  • the graces received via daily Mass and Eucharist, and
  • monthly Confession.

I have been successful at this and I do not give-in to the temptation, but at times it feels like torture when it seems nobody would be harmed, including myself, by occasionally giving in to this without feeling like that would condemn my soul for eternity. And thus the reason for my first question above.

The above cited portion of the Catechism is problematic. The Church needs to address this.
Thank you.

Widower with Questions
  { What are the social factors that can lessen the moral culpability of masturbation? }

Bob replied:

Dear Friend,

The teaching on this goes to the commandment, “thou shalt not commit adultery.”  

In that commandment is the implication that all sex outside of the design God intended is an abuse.  Sex, not only with non-spouses, but “oneself,” or the person or thing of one’s imagination, constitutes an offense against this commandment.  Awareness of the sacredness of the act, and man’s seed in particular, goes all the way back into the early Biblical account of Onan in Genesis (Genesis 38:9) where Onan spilled his seed on the ground and failed in his duty to have legitimate intercourse with his new wife, his brother’s widow.  Onanism, as a form of birth control, from withdrawing before ejaculation, also became synonymous with masturbation.  The word has been associated with both since its use came into play, because people intuited the connection with ejaculation for pleasure versus the procreative context for which it was created.

So, the Church has always held this belief, and while she is reticent to write into canon law the particulars of every form of sexual deviation, it did make a statement in 1975 in Persona Humana.  The relevant passage (# 9) is included below.  I highlighted some points that apply to your questions.

The traditional Catholic doctrine that masturbation constitutes a grave moral disorder is often called into doubt or expressly denied today. It is said that psychology and sociology show that it is a normal phenomenon of sexual development, especially among the young. It is stated that there is real and serious fault only in the measure that the subject deliberately indulges in solitary pleasure closed in on self ("ipsation"), because in this case the act would indeed be radically opposed to the loving communion between persons of different sex which some hold is what is principally sought in the use of the sexual faculty.

This opinion is contradictory to the teaching and pastoral practice of the Catholic Church. Whatever the force of certain arguments of a biological and philosophical nature, which have sometimes been used by theologians, in fact both the Magisterium of the Church - in the course of a constant tradition - and the moral sense of the faithful have declared without hesitation that masturbation is an intrinsically and seriously disordered act.[19] The main reason is that, whatever the motive for acting this way, the deliberate use of the sexual faculty outside normal conjugal relations essentially contradicts the finality of the faculty. For it lacks the sexual relationship called for by the moral order, namely the relationship which realizes "the full sense of mutual self-giving and human procreation in the context of true love."[20] All deliberate exercise of sexuality must be reserved to this regular relationship. Even if it cannot be proved that Scripture condemns this sin by name, the tradition of the Church has rightly understood it to be condemned in the New Testament when the latter speaks of "impurity," "unchasteness" and other vices contrary to chastity and continence.

Sociological surveys are able to show the frequency of this disorder according to the places, populations or circumstances studied. In this way facts are discovered, but facts do not constitute a criterion for judging the moral value of human acts.[21] The frequency of the phenomenon in question is certainly to be linked with man's innate weakness following original sin; but it is also to be linked with the loss of a sense of God, with the corruption of morals engendered by the commercialization of vice, with the unrestrained licentiousness of so many public entertainments and publications, as well as with the neglect of modesty, which is the guardian of chastity.

On the subject of masturbation modern psychology provides much valid and useful information for formulating a more equitable judgment on moral responsibility and for orienting pastoral action. Psychology helps one to see how the immaturity of adolescence (which can sometimes persist after that age), psychological imbalance or habit can influence behavior, diminishing the deliberate character of the act and bringing about a situation whereby subjectively there may not always be serious fault. But in general, the absence of serious responsibility must not be presumed; this would be to misunderstand people's moral capacity.

In the pastoral ministry, in order to form an adequate judgment in concrete cases, the habitual behavior of people will be considered in its totality, not only with regard to the individual's practice of charity and of justice but also with regard to the individual's care in observing the particular precepts of chastity. In particular, one will have to examine whether the individual is using the necessary means, both natural and supernatural, which Christian asceticism from its long experience recommends for overcoming the passions and progressing in virtue.

You are doing all the right things, but that doesn't mean that it is easy. Following Christ is often difficult, but that’s the point.  If He was easy to follow, He wouldn't be worthy of followers.  Keep in mind that this cross has a purpose, God wants you to learn from it and to offer it up for persons that are stuck in incredibly bad sexual sins and need someone to make some sacrifice to help them.  You could help save a soul by uniting your struggle to Christ and bear it lovingly for the sake of someone who has no self-control.  You have that, by God’s grace, and He didn't give it to you so you could squander it.  Consider yourself like a Marine, in spiritual battle, and there are bodies falling left and right.

  • Will you leave your brothers behind?

Peace,

Bob Kirby
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