Hi, guys —

I deal with scrupulosity and I'm working on it but still tend to overreact to some things.

In one situation, my fiancée and I were watching a movie. Instinctively like touching an arm I rub her upper chest like literally near the neck area, not in a sexual manner at all, and I was not thinking about anything in a sexual or related manner. It was like holding hands or (patting/rubbing) someone on their back. I eventually caught myself doing this and I thought to myself,

“Is this wrong because it's close to her upper ‘area’ "?

I still didn't remove my hand but thought,

“I don't know if it is wrong, but now that I'm thinking about it, I should stop.”

and 2 seconds after that, I stopped myself.

• Did I sin?
• Do I need Confession?