Dear Thomas,

Your situation is not unlike most visitors who visit our site, as many struggle with the sins of the flesh (the consequences of concupiscence which remained after our Baptism.) That said, our bodies were created so we could naturally procreate and bring new life into the world so aspects of your struggles are not unnatural but normal and healthy.

I can only suggest you look for a faithful Catholic priest in your diocese who can offer the proper spiritual and pastoral counseling.

Sorry, that's the best I can do. My colleagues may be able to offer you more advice.

Mike

Thomas,

This may be simply your body's way of dealing with the excess material it is producing, since it may be more than reabsorption permits. In time it should decrease, but don't despair, just offer it up. Every physical inconvenience we have is an opportunity for sacrifice. Think of those who lost the ability to reproduce through accident or warfare. They carry a great burden, so offer it for them. Sometimes the burden we bear is the loss of another.

We have to learn to make our lives a living sacrifice and reorient things for God's holy purpose. Things we can control, and can't control, are both able to be given to our Lord.

Some couples who suffer fertility issues, adopt, and can still encounter great challenges.

Nevertheless, people can make sacrifices for them and help them those who are going through hard times. As the body of Christ we impact each other so, reframe it for now, and in due time you will have greater peace.

Peace,

Bob Kirby