William,
Both God parents absolutely must be Catholics. The role of the
God parent is to help the parents instruct and raise the child
as a Catholic!! In the event of the parents death, the primary
responsibility for the child's spiritual direction falls to the
God Parents.
- How can non-Catholics who don't profess the Catholic
faith, bring up a child to believe and follow all that the Church
teaches?
Moreover, along with the parents, the God parents will have to
pronounce faith in the Roman Catholic Church on behalf of the
child during the Baptism ceremony.
- How can a non-Catholic claim
to accept the Church and all that she teaches as being revealed
by God, if he himself is not a member of the Church?
Secondarily, the God parents must be one male and female. A Catholic
child has a right to a Godmother and a Godfather. Not just God
parents.
Baptism is not just some dedication ceremony which gives the
family an excuse to celebrate the baby.
It is a sacrament. Sacrament means covenant bond and
it requires the taking of an oath. Your daughter is asking the
Church to baptize her child and accept him or her into the Church.
The Church rejoices that your daughter wants her child baptized.
Nevertheless, the Church needs assurances that the parents will
bring up the child as a Catholic. Therefore She (the Church) can't
allow non-Catholics to be God parents. That's not
to say, these men aren't loving relatives or outstanding in character
but they can't possibly raise the child to believe in what the
Church teaches respecting all matters of faith and morals, if they
don't know what the Church teaches, let alone, believe in it themselves.
John
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