Hi, Allen —
Thanks for the question.
It's your house and you have the
right to lay down whatever principles
you wish.
When she says:
They sleep together or they don't
stay.
That tells me, they want you to
accept a norm where two gay woman
living in the same room in your home
is natural, when obviously it isn't. If they understand your principles,
I wouldn't worry about it.
Many in the homosexual community
want practicing Christians to see
their behavior and life style as
natural, when it's not. Some even
strive to force it down other people's
mouth.
If you are a practicing Christian,
you should stand on your values and
pray for them regularly.
Having sexual passions and drives
is part of being human but when
those passions are mis-directed to
others of the same sex due to a permissive
behavioral environment or a group
of experts who say it's
OK, demoralized behavior is welcomed
as acceptable behavior.
Although homosexuality is a learned
behavior, heterosexually within a
heterosexual culture can be a learned
behavior as well.
I've heard personal testimonies
on this from men who were homosexual
and now have a Christian marriage
with four children.
As a Father, the best you can do
is pray for her and her friend.
She has to make the choice to understand
the what and why of
Christian marriage.
Strive to stay on good speaking terms
with her.
Hope this helps,
Mike
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