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Dear Doyle,
The short answer is yes, God forgives the sincerely repentant person.
If someone rejects their own sin, is truly sorry, and genuinely resolves to sin no more, then he or she has opened their heart to receive God's forgiveness and love in the sacrament of Confession, even if it is a habitual sin.
Vices, obsessions, and addictions are not easy to overcome however, one must do whatever it reasonably takes to leave them behind, with God's grace. For example:
- an alcoholic should not hang out in bars
- a shopaholic should avoid department stores, and
- those that have continuous problems with sexual sins should avoid as much as possible situations that would inevitably have them fall to sin.
This would include taking active custody over one's eyes, mind, and heart regarding images, fantasy, etc., and utilizing one's computer or other medium only within situations where it would not be easy to give into temptation.
Do what you can to avoid these situations, what the Church traditionally calls near occasions of sin.
And lastly, one of the greatest virtues in the Christian life is perseverance. Never give up.
Pray, hope, and persevere and God will help you overcome.
Peace,
Paul
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