Bringing you the "Good News" of Jesus Christ and His Church While PROMOTING CATHOLIC Apologetic Support groups loyal to the Holy Father and Church's magisterium
Home About
AskACatholic.com
What's New? Resources The Church Family Life Mass and
Adoration
Ask A Catholic
Knowledge base
AskACatholic Disclaimer
Search the
AskACatholic Database
Donate and
Support our work
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
New Questions
Cool Catholic Videos
About Saints
Disciplines and Practices for distinct Church seasons
Purgatory and Indulgences
About the Holy Mass
About Mary
Searching and Confused
Contemplating becoming a Catholic or Coming home
Homosexual and Gender Issues
Life, Dating, and Family
No Salvation Outside the Church
Sacred Scripture
non-Catholic Cults
Justification and Salvation
The Pope and Papacy
The Sacraments
Marriage
back
Relationships and Marriage situations
Specific people, organizations and events
Doctrine and Teachings
Specific Practices
Church Internals
Church History

Anonymous wrote:

Hi, guys —

I was baptized at a Catholic Church when I was 14. I then met my partner, and we had a Muslim "nikkah" ceremony.

Usually, there are ways that a Catholic and a Muslim can get married, but this Imam (the Muslim version of a priest) made it a point to make the event a conversion ceremony as well. I went along with the ceremony, repeating everything that was basically denouncing my Catholic religion, but I only said it to go through with the ceremony, not because I wanted to live as a Muslim.

My questions are:

  • Would I need to get baptized all over again to be considered Catholic?
  • Is the person that baptized me no longer my Godmother, and
  • Do I no longer count as a Godmother to my niece, whom I baptized as well?

I look forward to your response.

Anonymous

  { Since my only intent was to get married and not convert to the Muslim faith, do I now have to be rebaptized to be a Catholic? }

Eric replied:

Dear Anonymous,

Rebaptism is not necessary (or even possible). You need to go to the sacrament of Reconciliation and confess what you've done, and you will be received and welcomed back into the Church.

This does not change your goddaughter or godparent relationships.

Eric

Bob replied:

Dear Friend,

Thanks for the question.  

To be reinstated as a Catholic in the state of grace and in good standing in the Church, and to nullify the automatic excommunication you incurred by renouncing your faith, you must see a priest for Confession.  The fact that you had inner reservations about the act you committed in public does not absolve you of the sin.  Jesus was plain when he said:

". . . but whoever denies me before men, I also will deny before my Father who is in Heaven."

(Matthew 10:33)  

This is known as apostasy, the abandoning of the faith.  You will also have to make a public confession of faith, to undo the public renunciation.  You must realize how serious this sin is and the license you gave to Satan, who is the ultimate rejector of Christ.  With a sin of this magnitude you must be very serious about making it right. Counsel with a good priest is in order.

As far as Baptism goes, that is an unrepeatable Sacrament and it cannot be redone, nor does it need to be redone.  The mark of Baptism will shine again when you return to the fold through the door of repentance and penance.  You will also be able to be a Godparent.  We make mistakes all the time out of foolishness, ignorance, pressure, and all kinds of reasons, but public renunciation of Christ is no simple mistake, it is like pointing a gun at an innocent and pulling the trigger, then saying, "I didn't know it was loaded."  There is no amount of rationale that can explain it, justify it, or white wash it. You just have to own it and fix it.

I hope you are able to do all this soon and once again be back in the bosom of the Church Christ gave us to feed us, save us and help others.

Peace,

Bob Kirby

Please report any and all typos or grammatical errors.
Suggestions for this web page and the web site can be sent to Mike Humphrey
© 2012 Panoramic Sites
The Early Church Fathers Church Fathers on the Primacy of Peter. The Early Church Fathers on the Catholic Church and the term Catholic. The Early Church Fathers on the importance of the Roman Catholic Church centered in Rome.