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Reggie wrote:

Hi, guys!

My name is Reggie from California.

I have a question. I have a sister-in-law who married her first degree cousin and they now have a daughter whose 11 years old. They used to be Catholic but she converted to a born again Christian denomination. Her cousin ask her to join when they fell in love in each other. I think they only got married civilly. They lived in the Philippines.

When they got married, I just realized that this is incest.

  • Is this right?
  • What will happen to them?
  • Can they come back to Catholic Church?
  • What do they have to do if they decide to return to the Church?

I have so many relatives and friends who used to be a Catholic.

Thanks and God Bless you,

Reggie

  { Is this incest and what do my relatives do if they decide to return to the Catholic Church? }

Mary Ann replied:

Hi Reggie,

I am so sorry for your loss of so many friends and relatives to the faith.

Your sister-in-law is not committing incest.

Under current canon law, the Catholic Church does not permit marriage between first cousins.
For Catholics, such a marriage is not valid, but it is an ecclesiastical requirement, not a divine law. This prohibition may therefore be dispensed from, but only rarely and only for grave reasons.

The prohibition is, however, not binding on non-Catholics, so a non-Catholic couple who were first cousins and who married could convert without a problem with their marriage. A Catholic who has a civil marriage is not in a valid marriage, unless the Catholic has formally left the faith, which your sister-in-law appears to have done.

The couple you describe can certainly [return to/convert to] the Catholic faith, and would not necessarily need a dispensation as they would probably be considered validly married — but this is a question that can easily be answered by the pastor.

Hope this helps,

Mary Ann

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