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Alan Lewerenz
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Hi Mike —
I arrived home and found the
materials you sent me you sent me to be in good order and I am enjoying
the reading.
My issue is that I have wanted to become Catholic for years, however
when I have visited various Parish offices to speak about my desires, I am always
told that there is no other avenue than to take RCIA classes and my employment in the Nuclear Engineering business does not allow me to be
in one place anywhere nearly long enough to take classes.
I have been baptized and was raised in church. We attended at least three times a
week. Sunday mornings we had Sunday School and then the main worship service. Sunday
nights were Youth meetings followed by the evening service. During the summer time we had Daily
Vacation Bible School and Camp. I am the guy who grew up winning prizes for memorizing
Bible verses.
My parents were both graduates of the Moody Bible Institute in Chicago,
and spiritual matters were pretty much in the forefront at all times in our house.
We had no TV; we read and listened to radio. You would not be wrong to assume that
I have a more than passing knowledge of
Holy Scripture and spiritual doctrines, however, I always felt something missing deep inside,
but while under my parent's roof,
I could not bring the subject up.
Now that I am grown and in late
mid-life and can make my own decisions and after long, and at times, painful searching,
I now know it is the Catholic Church that I want to so much be a part of. I can feel the connection
into antiquity and to Christ.
- Is there any such thing as RCIA classes online?
I find it incredible
that here I am, desperately knocking on the Church door, and they will not let
me in! I would think that saving my immortal soul would be their first priority and that getting
some classes under my belt could follow as something of a secondary importance . . . but in the parishes I have
visited, they did not seem to even care if I left their office and was run down and
killed in the road, because their rules state that salvation and communion
with the Church has to be initiated in such-and-such a manner.
I am pretty sure the thief on the cross did not attend RCIA classes. It might
sound odd, but lately I am very aware of my own mortality and do not feel that
I can keep taking these closed doors at Catholic parishes any longer.
So I ask you brother:
- What must I do to be saved?
- What must I do to be united
to the Church that I was never given a chance to know?
I did not nail anything
to any doors — I did not protest.
Any input is appreciate Mike.
Best wishes —
Alan Lewerenz
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How do I join the Church if I have no time to take RCIA classes; can I take them on-line? }
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Mike replied:
Hi Alan,
I'm glad you received the Rosary and accompanying information pamphlets in good condition.
I'm sending a copy of your question to a Catholic friend of mine, Kevin Terry, in Kentucky who as a former Methodist himself, you may be able to build a friendship with. For the sake of the team: Alan is a brother Christian (a Methodist) who lives in Iowa.
This is definitely an issue that can be worked out.
Unlike many Protestant brethren who by a simple act of faith accept
Jesus into their heart, despite possible doctrinal differences, the Church
sees a important connection between:
- what one professes to believe, faith-wise and
- the Eucharist (the Body and Blood of Our Blessed Lord) we receive every Sunday
When a Catholic receives the Eucharist at every Mass, implied in that
reception of the Blessed Sacrament is the acceptance of all the teachings
of the Church. We are publicly saying we are in a Common Union with the Teachings of Jesus' Church and with Jesus Himself! As a Catholic, one can't make that public act of saying you are in a Common Union with the Teachings of Jesus' Church if you don't know and accept those teachings.
Maybe a good way to think of it, is by this analogy:
- If you started dating a woman for a few weeks, would you consider marrying
her before knowing more about:
- her
- her family, or
- any baggage she may
be carrying?
Ideally, RCIA is a period of time where you get to learn what we believe as Catholics.
I don't think there is anything like a RCIA online, plus, in
my opinion, it wouldn't be within the nature of the Church.
We are a people
who help and assist other people within the Church. Each of us, including
you, has a special calling in the Catholic Church. Part of RCIA is discerning
and figuring out where you are being called to serve in the Church. RCIA can
also be a great place to meet new friends.
You said:
... when I have visited various Parish offices to speak about my desires, I am always
told that there is no other avenue than to take RCIA classes and my employment in the Nuclear Engineering business does not allow me to be
in one place anywhere nearly long enough to take classes.
I would first find out what times you would have to set
aside on a regular basis to attend the RCIA classes. Once you know this,
talk with your supervisor about the issue. The two of you should be able to work something out.
If you are in a situation where you are the manager yourself,
then you may just have to talk to your peers about taking some time off,
while someone else covers for you for a while. Maybe you can temporarily
switch working shifts.
The Lord may be testing
you to trust in Him in this situation.
Most importantly, I would make sure that any pastor or priest you go to
has a good reputation for being loyal to the Holy Father. Don't waste your
time with pastors or priests that speak badly about the Pope. Having a
devotion to the Eucharist is also an excellent sign that he is a good priest.
You said:
I find it incredible
that here I am, desperately knocking on the Church door, and they will not let
me in!
Sure they will, the sign on the door says, RCIA, you just
have to open it.
Hope this helps,
Mike
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Mary Ann replied:
Hi Alan,
RCIA is the normal route but if you could find a religious order priest somewhere
outside of a parish, you might be able to take instruction privately. As for RCIA classes — it is really not a set of classes, but a 6 to 8 month program of weekly meetings.
Once
a week is not too bad, right?, and often you can join late. RCIA also serves the
purpose of helping you become part of a local community. As a matter of fact, in
many cases, that's mostly what it does and you really need to study on your own to
get the whole Catholic faith.
I would go back again and again. Go to:
- a University community
- a monastery, or
- an
Opus Dei priest, or another Order priest.
Go back again to the parishes; go to the
bishop.
I agree, this is silly, but if they were really to know your situation, they
would work something out.
Good luck.
Hope this helps,
Mary Ann
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Kevin replied:
Mike,
Please pass this e-mail on to Mr. Lewerenz. This Easter will be one year
since I came into the Church. My only regret about becoming Catholic is
that I didn't do it sooner. My RCIA class had about 30 people who came
into the Church. In my class, there were two circumstances similar to his.
One family was very, very poor. It was my understanding that they could
rarely take off work or else they could not pay the bills. However when
they could, they attended the RCIA classes. They did a lot of one on one work with our Pastoral Associate who led the RCIA classes with our Priest.
Another family was in a similar situation. They were not living in poverty
and were actually well off, however, they were on the road a great deal,
and were not able to be there most Thursday nights from 6:30-8:30pm which
was the time of our classes. They too, met with our Pastoral Associate,
and with our Priest. They would receive the handouts, materials, etc. and
were required to learn the same materials that we had learned that week.
Now they were required to be there for the Rite of Election, and the other
Rite's, each Sunday during Lent. It may take a bit of sacrifice on Alan's part. Even though you can't always
attend the RCIA sessions, you may have to set aside other times to meet
with the Priest, or whoever else they want you to see.
I feel sure if he
presents his situation to a few Priests in his area, and if they are true
Christians and love the Lord and Church as they profess, arrangements
will be made for his case.
I will pray for his situation, and am here to help with any other questions.
May God Bless Alan on his journey home.
In Christ,
Kevin Terry
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Alan replied:
Mike and Kevin —
Thanks for some good thoughts.
I was not clear enough about my employment though. I travel. I might be at one
plant in Pennsylvania this week and in Spain or Korea the next week. This type of thing happens throughout the year. At times I have long durations at a site, but never more than 1-2 months,
which is about long enough to start building relationships before I have to move on to another site and before getting anything actually done.
Maybe if it were like taking flying lessons ... where I had a log book that I could carry
around from place to place and have things signed off. :-)
This is not looking
promising, Mike.
Alan
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Eric replied:
Hi Alan,
I would say that RCIA as such is not strictly necessary. It is possible
to find a priest who can instruct you personally on your own schedule and then receive
you into the Church.
As you point out, the care of souls is the highest priority.
I would persevere in
knocking on parish doors until I found a priest who was willing to do this, explaining
your exceptional situation of course or if they insist that RCIA
is necessary, ask if they can do one-on-one classes at your schedule.
If they refuse
to, then they are just being uncooperative.
Eric
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John replied:
Hi Alan,
I'd like to add to the previous comments.
- RCIA done properly is not just for doctrinal instruction; rather
it should foster a sense of Catholic community so the notion of RCIA
online defeats half the purpose.
- In your case it seems as though your work makes attendance impossible
because your work moves you around. There is a principle regarding canonical
requirements that says all canons exist for the salvation of souls.
RCIA is a legislated requirement and for good reason. It cannot be
lightly set aside but
if I were in your situation, I would visit the chancery
of the diocese you are located in, and see if some kind of dispensation
is available. Parish priests may not always be aware of all the possibilities.
When I was received back into the Church, my local priest was clueless
as to the procedure. He had to call the diocesan office to get instruction
and they told them they would get back to him in few days.
In the mean time, I looked up the canon myself and took it to another
priest, read it to him then he agreed to hear my Confession and allowed
me to re-enter the Church.
As it turned out, the diocese also required
that I make a public profession of faith, before I received Holy Communion
in any parish in my hometown as I was, up until that point, known as a Protest
Minister but in the mean time I was free to receive the Eucharist anywhere
else.
My situation was very, very different than yours. I was a fallen away
Catholic who had become a Protestant Minister so I'm not saying there
is, or is not, a dispensation available for you but, given the guiding
principle that canons exists for the benefit of souls and given what appears
to be extraordinary circumstances, perhaps there is another path available
for you. It is certainly worth making a phone call to a bishop!
You said:
- What must I do to be saved?
You ask the same question the Philippian jailor asked:
What must I do to be saved? Acts 16:30
That is an anthropocentric question around which most Protestant Church
center their theology.
The Catholic Church's theology all stems from a Christocentric question
that Christ asked of Peter:
Who do you say that I am? Matthew 16:15
In other
words, while salvation is certainly a doctrine of the Church, it is not the defining doctrine, as it is in many Protestant sects. Rather, Catholic
soteriology flows from how you answer Christ's question to Peter. If you
get who Christ is correctly, from there, you get the Body of Christ fully
correct and you then get your ecclesiology correct, followed by the Communion
of Saints, etc., etc. It is a whole package.
The matter of salvation is a matter of God's sovereignty. It is a complete
work of Christ from beginning to end that requires our free will cooperation
with grace, by the grace given to us, but salvation is more than a get
out of jail free card.
Yes, it is eternal life, but it entails full
adoption into the Body of Christ and all that adoption involves and necessitates.
It is not just a legal action — a declaration of not guilty (as Luther argued).
It is a family matter, whereby each member has privileges, rights, and
responsibilities in Christ. It is interdependency, a mystical unity which
transcends physical death.
Alan, you've already shown a deep desire to enter the Church Christ founded
where the fullness of Christian faith resides. The most important thing
you can do is pray. God will open a way for you.
Finally, I would ask you to consider this. It could be that after
prayer and further investigation, it becomes clear that there is no other
door (other than RCIA) for you to enter the Church Christ established.
Christ told us that we are to take up our Cross and follow Him. He also
told us that we must be willing to leave mother, father, sister, or brother.
- You may find that Christ would prefer you leave your profession, even
if for a season, to follow Him into His Church.
- It may be that he has another
plan entirely for your life so, as you pursue your journey,
I would ask
you to be open to His Will.
Under His Mercy,
John DiMascio
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Fr. Nick replied:
Dear Mike:
Thanks for passing Alan's situation along.
While RCIA is a wonderful way to initiate a person into the Church, it is not the
only one available. It is disappointing that a viable alternative is not being offered to him.
People can come be initiated into the Church at anytime of the year, not just at
the Easter Vigil.
I would suggest he first go to the local Vicar for the local region or Vicariate.
The Vicar, in some parts of the country they are called Deans or Deaneries, is
a pastor and might be the best person to direct Alan to a [parish/priest] that will
develop an individual program.
Fr. Nick
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Mike followed-up:
Hi Alan,
You said:
Maybe if it were like taking flying lessons ... where I had a log book that I could carry
around from place to place and have things signed off. :-)
This is not looking
promising, Mike.
We have to step back and remember the job description of the person we
are dealing with:
[God/Jesus] — [God/Man] and the Church He chose to establish on St. Peter and his
successors.
I was always taught that with God, anything is possible. I would resort to a regular prayer life asking Him to show you where to
go and whom to meet with in order to enter the Church.
I promise you that prayer will not go unanswered! See you in the Church within the next
18 months. : )
Mike
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John replied:
Hi Alan,
All of us have particular difficulties in our faith journey but most of us who eventually cross
the Tiber share similar periods where it just seems impossible.
My brother,
please don't be discouraged. All things have purpose and as it says in Romans 8:28, God works all things
to benefit of those who love Him. Offer your suffering to God and unite
it to the Cross. This experience is a Calvary for you.
Think of it this way. If this process were simply something you could do on your
own, you could take the credit but God calls us to do what is seemingly
impossible for man, so that when it comes to pass, the Glory belongs to
God. You asked what must you do to be saved. My brother, it is your faith,
given to you by grace, that will be the conduit which the Lord uses to
bring you home to His Church.
Trust in Jesus, our Lord and Savior. He would not have brought you this
far for nothing. Remember the Israelites after they were brought out of Egypt. They too sent spies into the Promised Land and were afraid to take it because
of the reports of giants, yet the land was
theirs for the taking.
Do not shrink back from the faith Christ has given you. For if you have
faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to a mountain to jump into
the sea and it will. (Matthew 21:21) This mountain that is seemingly in your way of entering
the Church is but a test of your faith.
Like my brother Mike said, I am sure of your entrance into the Church and speaking for the rest of my fellow apologists at CPATS: we look
forward to rejoicing with you.
Under His Mercy,
John DiMascio
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Alan replied:
Mike —
I am overwhelmed with the positive response that has poured into my inbox!
Maybe 18 months is possible.
Now I have to take this new found information and put wheels under it.
The local parish where
I actually live might be a tough sell. It has been
in the past when I last tried, however a new priest is running the show
(Prince of Peace in Clinton, Iowa), and a new Bishop now heads up the diocese of Davenport.
The entire parish was a war zone for quite awhile due to political issues.
The parish is old and used to have multiple churches which basically covered
the diverse ethnic neighborhoods: Irish, German, Polish, etc.
When consolidation was mandated due to budget issues, the
whole parish went up in smoke for a long time. The head priest back then
(Fr. Young) listened to my story and pretty much blew me off as the least
of his worries! Ha!
Thanks for everything and I will keep in touch. A new work week is starting
and I am headed to Japan for a short trip — then to China for an
inspection at a steel plant, then back home.
My Best to all —
Alan
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Mike replied:
Hi Alan,
Thanks for the follow-up.
We had some consolidation of parishes in our area too. Some people were hurt and some
were very disappointed.
I don't want to take away or deny what, for many, was a great Catholic
culture and upbringing in a specific parish that the diocese had to close.
Nevertheless, the way I see things is would I rather close a few parishes and be
more financially secure than keep financially weak parishes open and have the diocese file for
chapter 11 bankruptcy.
I think the new priests and bishops will be helpful. I'll keep you in my prayers.
Mike
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