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Marie Ahmed wrote:

Hi,

My husband is Muslim and forced me to change my religion from Catholic to Muslim. My daughter is also a Muslim.

  • I want to know how I can change back to being a Catholic?
  • What is the procedure or what do I have to do?

I would like to have my daughter baptized as a Catholic as well.

My husband is no longer with me.

Thanks,

Marie

  { How does a Catholic wife, coerced by a Muslim husband to be a Muslim, become a Catholic again? }

John replied:

Marie,

The first thing you need to do is go find a good priest.

If, in the process of converting to Islam, you publicly renounced your Catholic faith, you incurred an undeclared and automatic excommunication. While you were coerced, at some point, you had to agree to convert, albeit under duress. As far as the public is concerned, you're a Muslim. Therefore, the remedy is to profess your Catholic faith in front of Catholic witnesses and renounce Islam.

Of course, if you live in a Muslim community, your public re-conversion to the Church could prove dangerous. The priest will know how to handle this circumstance.

Nevertheless, this process doesn't entail a big public ceremony or anything like that. Contact your local priest and explain to him exactly what happened. He will be able to get the faculties from his bishop; it shouldn't take a long a time: usually a few days. Once he receives the faculties, he'll ask you to profess your Catholic faith in front of a couple Catholic witnesses. At that point, you will be able to have your priest hear your confession (in private obviously) and you can go on living as a Catholic, in good standing, as if nothing ever happened. Once God forgives our sins, He casts them into a sea of forgetfulness. He can also assist you in getting your daughter properly baptized.

If you wish, you can immediately be reconciled under the following Canon Law:

Canon 1357

§1. Without prejudice to the prescripts of cannon 508 and 976, a confessor can remit in the internal sacramental forum an undeclared latae sententiae censure of excommunication or interdict if it is burdensome for the penitent to remain in the state of grave sin during the time necessary for the competent superior to make provision.

§2. In granting the remission, the confessor is to impose on the penitent, under the penalty of reincidence, the obligation of making recourse within a month to the competent superior or to a priest endowed with the faculty and the obligation of obeying his mandates; in the meantime he is to impose a suitable penance and, insofar as it is demanded, reparation of any scandal and damage; however, recourse can also be made through the confessor, without mention of the name.

If your condition is burdensome to you, you may ask a priest to hear your confession, but make sure you bring this Canon Law to his attention.

Trust me. I went through this, myself, when I returned to the Church after being a Protestant Minister. Most priests are unaware of it. Just print out this e-mail and show it to your priest.

Nevertheless, this is just a temporary fix. The priest will still have to get faculties from his ordinary (bishop) in order to receive you back into the Church in front of Catholic witnesses.

I hope this helps,

God Bless!

John DiMascio

Mary Ann replied:

Marie,

I am so sorry for your forced conversion. Returning to Catholicism is easily done. Just talk to a priest, confess anything you think necessary, and start attending Mass and receiving the Eucharist at a good Catholic parish.

Immerse yourself in the Catholic community for support. If you live in a Muslim community, make sure you are safe, or go elsewhere, because there can be great problems for one who leaves Islam.

Blessings on you!

Mary Ann

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