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Cheryl Parker wrote:

Hi, guys —

My name is Cheryl.

  • I would like to know if a person who has been twice-divorced would be accepted into the Catholic Church?

My first marriage lasted three years and ended because my husband was very abusive; he also committed adultery.

My second marriage lasted nine years and ended because of adultery on my husband's part.
We reconciled and remained together for another sixteen years. It has recently ended due to extreme hardships. I now know we should have never reconciled but I felt, at the time, it was the right thing to do. I really tried to make it work.

I have always felt the Catholic Church is the One, True Church and wanted to convert many years ago, but due to my second husband's negative views of the Church, I did not. I have two siblings who converted over thirty years ago.

My pull towards the faith has always been very strong, I have learned a lot about the faith by teaching myself, since that was the only way I could learn for many years. I have several Rosaries; some purchased and blessed by me, and one purchased and blessed by my sister. I felt it very important that I have them in my life . . . even if I had to say the Rosary without being confirmed.

Over the years I have purchased various medals and reading material because, as I stated, I have always felt that the Catholic Church is the One, True Church.

I am now 51 years old and have no intentions of ever remarrying.

  • I would like to know if it would be possible for me convert to the faith which I have treasured for so long?

I pray that I can, but if the life I have led outside the Church prevents it, I understand.

Thank you,

Cheryl

  { With my marital history, if I don't intend to remarry, can I fulfill my desire to become a Catholic? }

Eric replied:

Hi, Cheryl —

If you have no intentions of remarrying, I see no impediment to your being received into the Church.

You will have an opportunity to confess whatever sins you may have committed in the context of both marriages and I encourage you to:

  • examine your conscience
  • repent of those sins you identify, and
  • bring them to your Confession.

Welcome home!

Eric
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