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Carol Chandelier wrote:

Hi, guys —

I have been on a quest for over three years in order to become a Catholic. I took the classes, did all that was required of me but now have found out that I can't receive my First Communion, because my husband can't prove that he is Catholic. He has no relatives that can verify the fact that he was baptized and received his First Communion and we cannot locate his Baptismal or Confirmation certificates.

I am truly stressed that I cannot do what I feel God wants me to do (join the Church) and it isn't my fault. I have tried to contact every parish and diocese that my husband remembers attending, and I come up against a brick wall. He says he went to an all Catholic school in Cincinnati, Ohio called Glen Este, but, when I confirmed this, I found it is not a Catholic school. He says it used to be but, since he as lied to me about other important things in his life, I don't know what to believe.

  • I just want to know why it is so hard to join the Catholic Church even after one has gone through all the required steps?

  • If one wishes to become Catholic and is married to a non-Catholic , why is it easier for them than it is for me?

All I want to do is to receive my First Communion, and for my husband and I to be married in the Church. I hope you can help me understand why I'm having so many problems.

Thank you,

Carol C.

  { If one wants to be Catholic and is married to a non-Catholic , why is it easier for them than me? }

Mary Ann replied:

Carol,

You may receive your First Communion.

I think the hang up may be a previous marriage of your husband's. They want to know if your husband was baptized to judge the marriage's validity.

Nevertheless, there is no reason why you may not receive your First Holy Communion, even if he is not baptized, if there is no previous marriage; so there is a mix up in communication here.



Mary Ann

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