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Dear Amanda —
Ignore your friend. There is nothing in Catholic teaching which requires you to reject gay friends; in fact Jesus reached out to the worst sinners of his day and befriended them.
We take the attitude of love the sinner but hate the sin. If we never loved these people, they would never be attracted to the faith and consider reforming their lives to live lives of chastity.
Show your friends love and acceptance as human beings, while holding fast to your belief that homosexual behavior is objectively wrong. (Whether and to what degree you bring this up to them is up to your discretion.)
If your friend presses the issue ask him to produce a statement from the Catechism or the Magisterium that supports his position. He won't be able to.
Quote the Catechism paragraph 2358:
"The number of men and women who have deep-seated homosexual tendencies is not negligible. This inclination, which is objectively disordered, constitutes for most of them a trial. They must be accepted with respect, compassion, and sensitivity. Every sign of unjust discrimination in their regard should be avoided."
Eric
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