Dear Karen,
Thanks for the question.
First, non-Catholic are not bound to follow Catholic customs or disciplines; only Catholics are.
To answer your question, No, you are not cooperating with their sin. What type of substitute penance they perform on Fridays outside of Lent is their choice.
Your culpability stops after you make them aware that some other type of penance should be done on Fridays outside the Lenten Season . . . if they choose not to continue to abstain from meat on Fridays.
This discipline keeps the memory of Jesus' Death on the Cross (on Good Friday) fresh in our Christian minds.
This is not a doctrinal issue.
Mike
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