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Anonymous wrote:

Hi, guys —

  • When does one have "enough" faith to become a Christian and ask Jesus to be their Lord and Savior?

I've been studying Christianity, reading books, listening to preachers and apologists, watching videos, etc. for about 5 years. I pray for wisdom and faith, but I feel like my faith is weak.

  • Sometimes I question God.
  • Sometimes I wonder whether I should follow Catholic or Protestant teachings – there are very smart people on both sides yet both think the other side is wrong.

I'm not sure if I was hit by a truly awful event, like the death of one of my children or grandchildren, that I wouldn't lose my weak faith. As you can see, I'm a mess.

If I were hit by a truly awful event, like the death of one of my children or grandchildren, I'm not sure I wouldn't lose my weak faith. As you can see, I'm a mess.

  • How do I get over the hump?

Thank you in advance for your time.

Anonymous

  { How do I get over this hump of deciding which church I should join: Catholic or Protestant? }

Eric replied:

Dear Anonymous,

Faith is a gift, a gift we can ask for (which I recognize you have). In the Catholic tradition, we believe we receive it in baptism:

I. "Lord, look upon the faith of your Church".

168 It is the Church that believes first, and so bears, nourishes and sustains my faith. Everywhere, it is the Church that first confesses the Lord: "Throughout the world the holy Church acclaims you", as we sing in the hymn "Te Deum"; with her and in her, we are won over and brought to confess: "I believe", "We believe". It is through the Church that we receive faith and new life in Christ by Baptism.

In the Rituale Romanum, the minister of Baptism asks the catechumen:

  • "What do you ask of God's Church?"

And the answer is: "Faith."

  • "What does faith offer you?" "Eternal life."

(Roman Ritual, Rite of baptism of adults: RCIA.)


  • Are you baptized?
  • If not, have you considered? it?

In the Catholic tradition again, Baptism confers faith and the Holy Spirit (Acts 2:38): It makes us new creatures (See Ezekiel 36:25-26, Titus 3:5, 2 Corinthians 5:17), "born from above" (John 3:3; can also be translated "born again"). We participate in the Death and Resurrection of Christ in Baptism (Romans 6).

Acknowledging Jesus as Lord and Savior is a matter of the will (enabled and moved by grace). If you are willing to renounce all your sins and do whatever He asks, and recognize that He can save you from your sins and their effects, then you're ready to ask Jesus to be your Lord and Savior. 

Faith is not a feeling. It's trusting in God to do what He promised He would do, and believing what He said is truth because He is God and He said it. It's a response to God's love for us, saying,

"Yes, Lord! I accept your love, I accept your mercy, I turn my back on sin and whatever displeases you, I humble myself before you and acknowledge you as the greatest good in my life, and I offer you my love and fidelity in return."

  • Specifically, what evidence do you have that your faith is weak?

 "Questioning" God is not necessarily a sign of weak faith. As St. John Henry Cardinal Newman said,

"A thousand difficulties do not make a single doubt."

If you think God is not doing what is best for you or think your ideas about how things are done are better than God's, there is some growth there for trust, but it doesn't mean you don't have faith.

You need the support of the community of believers (the Church) to support your faith:

ChapterThree.
Man's response to God.

Article 2
We Believe!

166 166 Faith is a personal act—the free response of the human person to the initiative of God who reveals himself. But faith is not an isolated act. No one can believe alone, just as no one can live alone. You have not given yourself faith as you have not given yourself life. The believer has received faith from others and should hand it on to others. Our love for Jesus and for our neighbor impels us to speak to others about our faith. Each believer is thus a link in the great chain of believers. I cannot believe without being carried by the faith of others, and by my faith I help support others in the faith.


Romans 8:28 says,

"All things work for good for those who love Christ Jesus".
  • First off, do you love Jesus?
  • Have you returned his unfathomable, torrential love for you? START HERE

He loves you like crazy and wants nothing more than your love in return! Second, God never permits something that he can't bring a greater good out of. And for those who love God, that good is our good. 

Sin blocks the work of God in our lives. Eradicate sin from your life, asking for God's grace. Baptism washes away sins (Acts 2:38). Without the Holy Spirit (also conferred in Baptism, and Confirmation, though God can bestow it in other ways), you can't do diddly-squat, though. 
Jesus excels in messes! Ask Him to take care of it. Entrust it to Him. Entrust everything to Him. He is He who is; you are he who is not. Remain humble and allow God to work.

As for Catholic vs. Protestant, you make an astute observation. I'd simply point out that the doctrines of the Reformation were unknown, historically, in the Church until the Reformation.

My quick pitch for the Catholic faith is that if you read what the early Church left behind (1 Clement, the Didache, the epistles of Ignatius of Antioch, Justin Martyr, Irenaeus of Lyons, Origen, Tertullian, etc.), long before Christianity was legalized, while martyrs were still being minted, long before the New Testament canon was settled, the Church was distinctly non-Protestant, in every region: The Roman Church. The Greek Church. The Syrian Church. The Armenian Church. The Assyrian Church. The Coptic Church. Every church in every region that survives today from the early days, even those that have been separated from the rest since the 5th century, rejects the principles of the Protestant Reformation. You simply cannot find Protestant doctrine in the first millennium (although there were some proto-Protestants before Luther in the second millennium).

"To be immersed in history is to cease to be Protestant"

(St. John Henry Cardinal Newman) 

Protestants claim to have Scripture on their side. To this I reply with the 4th-century St. Vincent of Lerins:

HERE, possibly, some one may ask, Do heretics also appeal to Scripture? They do indeed, and with a vengeance; for you may see them scamper through every single book of Holy Scripture, through the books of Moses, the books of Kings, the Psalms, the Epistles, the Gospels, the Prophets. Whether among their own people, or among strangers, in private or in public, in speaking or in writing, at convivial meetings, or in the streets, hardly ever do they bring forward anything of their own which they do not endeavor to shelter under words of Scripture. Read the works of Paul of Samosata, of Priscillian, of Eunomius, of Jovinian, and the rest of those pests, and you will see an infinite heap of instances, hardly a single page, which does not bristle with plausible quotations from the New Testament or the Old.

[65.] But the more secretly they conceal themselves under shelter of the Divine Law, so much the more are they to be feared and guarded against. For they know that the evil stench of their doctrine will hardly find acceptance with any one if it be exhaled pure and simple. They sprinkle it over, therefore, with the perfume of heavenly language, in order that one who would be ready to despise human error, may hesitate to condemn divine words. They do, in fact, what nurses do when they would prepare some bitter draught for children; they smear the edge of the cup all round with honey, that the unsuspecting child, having first tasted the sweet, may have no fear of the bitter. So too do these act, who disguise poisonous herbs and noxious juices under the names of medicines, so that no one almost, when he reads the label, suspects the poison.

[66.] It was for this reason that the Saviour cried,

“Beware of false prophets who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.”

  • What is meant by “sheep’s clothing”?
  • What but the words which prophets and apostles with the guilelessness of sheep wove beforehand as fleeces, for that immaculate Lamb which taketh away the sin of the world?
  • What are the ravening wolves?
  • What but the savage and rabid glosses of heretics, who continually infest the Church’s folds, and tear in pieces the flock of Christ wherever they are able?

But that they may with more successful guile steal upon the unsuspecting sheep, retaining the ferocity of the wolf, they put off his appearance, and wrap themselves, so to say, in the language of the Divine Law, as in a fleece, so that one, having felt the softness of wool, may have no dread of the wolf’s fangs.

  • But what saith the Savior?
    <“By their fruits ye shall know them;”>

 that is, when they have begun not only to quote those divine words, but also to expound them, not as yet only to make a boast of them as on their side, but also to interpret them, then will that bitterness, that acerbity, that rage, be understood; then will the ill-savour of that novel poison be perceived, then will those profane novelties be disclosed, then may you see first the hedge broken through, then the landmarks of the Fathers removed, then the Catholic faith assailed, then the doctrine of the Church torn in pieces.

St. Vincent of Lérins, “The Commonitory of Vincent of Lérins”, Sulpitius Severus, Vincent of Lérins, John Cassian (ed. P. SCHAFF – H. WACE) (A Select Library of the Nicene and Post-Nicene Fathers of the Christian Church, Second Series; New York 1894) XI, 150-151.

I think what you need is encouragement.

  • Have you connected with other believers?
  • Does this help?

Eric Ewanco
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