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Janie Clifton wrote:

Hi, guys —

I have a friend who converted to Catholicism from the Assembly of God Church however she still doesn't understand our belief that Mary remained a virgin after the birth of Christ and that she and Joseph did not have any children.

  • Can you help me explain this to her?

Thanks,

Janie

  { Can you help me explain the Virgin Birth of Jesus and how Joseph and Mary had no children? }

Mike replied:

Hi, Janie —

A lot of non-Catholics falsely assume that the work "until" implies that an action must follow; but this does not follow.

Matthew 1:25 says:

25 but knew her not until she had borne a son; and he called his name Jesus.

Matthew 1:25

— yet — 2 Samuel 6:23 says:

23 Therefore Michal the daughter of Saul had no child until the day of her death.

2 Samuel 6:23

  • Does this mean that Michal had children after she died?

As Catholics we believe Mary miraculously gave birth to her Divine Son Jesus and that she remained a Virgin:

  • Before
  • During, and
  • After the birth of Jesus.

This is also why the Church humbly proclaims Mary as the Mother of all:

  • regular families, and
  • consecrated religious.

Also check out what the Early Church taught.

I didn't want to take anything out of context so I pulled a large section from the Catechism (below) that should make what we believe, understandable in this area of doctrine:

"Let it be done to me according to your word. . ."

494 At the announcement that she would give birth to the Son of the Most High without knowing man, by the power of the Holy Spirit, Mary responded with the obedience of faith, certain that with God nothing will be impossible: Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord; let it be [done] to me according to your word. (Luke 1:28-38; cf. Romans 1:5) Thus, giving her consent to God's word, Mary becomes the mother of Jesus. Espousing the divine will for salvation wholeheartedly, without a single sin to restrain her, she gave herself entirely to the person and to the work of her Son; she did so in order to serve the mystery of redemption with him and dependent on him, by God's grace: (cf. Vatican II, Lumen Gentium 56)

As St. Irenaeus says,

"Being obedient she became the cause of salvation for herself and for the whole human race."

(St. Irenaeus, Adv. haeres. 3, 22, 4: PG 7/1, 959A)

Hence not a few of the early Fathers gladly assert. . .:

"The knot of Eve's disobedience was untied by Mary's obedience. What the virgin Eve bound through her disbelief, Mary loosened by her faith."

(St. Irenaeus, Adv. haeres. 3, 22, 4: PG 7/1, 959A)

Comparing her with Eve, they call Mary the Mother of the living and frequently claim:

"Death through Eve, life through Mary."

(cf. Vatican II, Lumen Gentium 56; Epiphanius, Haer. 78, 18: PG 42, 728CD-729AB; St. Jerome, Ep. 22, 21: PL 22, 408)

Mary's divine motherhood.

495 Called in the Gospels "the mother of Jesus", Mary is acclaimed by Elizabeth, at the prompting of the Spirit and even before the birth of her son, as "the mother of my Lord". (Luke 1:43; John 2:1; John 19:25; cf. Matthew 13:55; et al.) In fact, the One whom she conceived as man by the Holy Spirit, who truly became her Son according to the flesh, was none other than the Father's eternal Son, the second person of the Holy Trinity. Hence the Church confesses that Mary is truly "Mother of God" (Theotokos). (Council of Ephesus (431): DS 251)

Mary's virginity.

496 From the first formulations of her faith, the Church has confessed that Jesus was conceived solely by the power of the Holy Spirit in the womb of the Virgin Mary, affirming also the corporeal aspect of this event: Jesus was conceived by the Holy Spirit without human seed. (Council of the Lateran (649): DS 503; cf. DS 10-64) The Fathers see in the virginal conception the sign that it truly was the Son of God who came in a humanity like our own. Thus St. Ignatius of Antioch at the beginning of the second century says:

You are firmly convinced about our Lord, who is truly of the race of David according to the flesh, Son of God according to the will and power of God, truly born of a virgin,. . . he was truly nailed to a tree for us in his flesh under Pontius Pilate. . . he truly suffered, as he is also truly risen.

(St. Ignatius of Antioch, Ad Smyrn 1-2: Apostolic Fathers, ed. J. B. Lightfoot (London: Macmillan, 1889), II/2, 289-293; SCh 10, 154-156; cf. Romans 1:3; John 1:13)

497 The Gospel accounts understand the virginal conception of Jesus as a divine work that surpasses all human understanding and possibility: (Matthew 1:18-25; Luke 1:26-38) "That which is conceived in her is of the Holy Spirit", said the angel to Joseph about Mary his fiancee. (Matthew 1:20) The Church sees here the fulfillment of the divine promise given through the prophet Isaiah:

"Behold, a virgin shall conceive and bear a son."

(Isaiah 7:14 in the LXX, quoted in Matthew 1:23 [Greek])

498 People are sometimes troubled by the silence of St. Mark's Gospel and the New Testament Epistles about Jesus' virginal conception. Some might wonder if we were merely dealing with legends or theological constructs not claiming to be history. To this we must respond:

Faith in the virginal conception of Jesus met with the lively opposition, mockery or incomprehension of non-believers, Jews and pagans alike; (cf. St. Justin, Dialogue, 99, 7: PG 6, 708-709; Origen, Contra Celsum 1, 32, 69: PG 11, 720-721; et al) so it could hardly have been motivated by pagan mythology or by some adaptation to the ideas of the age. The meaning of this event is accessible only to faith, which understands in it the "connection of these mysteries with one another" (Vatican Council I, De Filius 4: DS 3016) in the totality of Christ's mysteries, from his Incarnation to his Passover. St. Ignatius of Antioch already bears witness to this connection:

"Mary's virginity and giving birth, and even the Lord's death escaped the notice of the prince of this world: these three mysteries worthy of proclamation were accomplished in God's silence."

(St. Ignatius of Antioch, Ad Ephesians. 19, 1: AF II/2 76-80; SCh 10,88; cf. 1 Corinthians 2:8)

Mary - "ever-virgin".

499 The deepening of faith in the virginal motherhood led the Church to confess Mary's real and perpetual virginity even in the act of giving birth to the Son of God made man. (cf. DS 291; 294; 427; 442; 503; 571; 1880.) In fact, Christ's birth did not diminish his mother's virginal integrity but sanctified it. (Vatican II, Lumen Gentium 57) And so the liturgy of the Church celebrates Mary as Aeiparthenos, the Ever-virgin. (cf. Vatican II, Lumen Gentium 52)

500 Against this doctrine the objection is sometimes raised that the Bible mentions brothers and sisters of Jesus. (cf. Mark 3:31-35; 6:1-3; 1 Corinthians 9:5; Galatians 1:19) The Church has always understood these passages as not referring to other children of the Virgin Mary. In fact James and Joseph, brothers of Jesus, are the sons of another Mary, a disciple of Christ, whom St. Matthew significantly calls the other Mary. (Matthew 13:55; 28:1; cf. Matthew 27:56) They are close relations of Jesus, according to an Old Testament expression. (cf. Genesis 13:8; 14:16; 29:15; etc.)

501 Jesus is Mary's only son, but her spiritual motherhood extends to all men whom indeed he came to save:

"The Son whom she brought forth is he whom God placed as the first-born among many brethren, that is, the faithful in whose generation and formation she co-operates with a mother's love." (Vatican II, Lumen Gentium 63; cf. John 19:26-27; Romans 8:29; Revelation 12:17)

Mary's virginal motherhood in God's plan.

502 The eyes of faith can discover in the context of the whole of Revelation the mysterious reasons why God in his saving plan wanted his Son to be born of a virgin. These reasons touch both on the person of Christ and his redemptive mission, and on the welcome Mary gave that mission on behalf of all men.

503 Mary's virginity manifests God's absolute initiative in the Incarnation. Jesus has only God as Father.

"He was never estranged from the Father because of the human nature which he assumed. . . He is naturally Son of the Father as to his divinity and naturally son of his mother as to his humanity, but properly Son of the Father in both natures." (Council of Friuli (796): DS 619; cf. Luke 2:48-49)

504 Jesus is conceived by the Holy Spirit in the Virgin Mary's womb because he is the New Adam, who inaugurates the new creation: "The first man was from the earth, a man of dust; the second man is from heaven." (1 Corinthians 15:45, 47) From his conception, Christ's humanity is filled with the Holy Spirit, for God "gives him the Spirit without measure." (John 3:34) From "his fullness" as the head of redeemed humanity "we have all received, grace upon grace." (John 1:16; cf. Colossians 1:18)

505 By his virginal conception, Jesus, the New Adam, ushers in the new birth of children adopted in the Holy Spirit through faith. "How can this be?" (Luke 1:34; cf. John 3:9) Participation in the divine life arises "not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God". (John 1:13) The acceptance of this life is virginal because it is entirely the Spirit's gift to man. The spousal character of the human vocation in relation to God (cf. 2 Corinthians 11:2) is fulfilled perfectly in Mary's virginal motherhood.

506 Mary is a virgin because her virginity is the sign of her faith "unadulterated by any doubt", and of her undivided gift of herself to God's will. (Vatican II, Lumen Gentium 63; cf. 1 Corinthians 7:34-35) It is her faith that enables her to become the mother of the Savior:

"Mary is more blessed because she embraces faith in Christ than because she conceives the flesh of Christ." (St. Augustine, De virg., 3: PL 40, 398)

507 At once virgin and mother, Mary is the symbol and the most perfect realization of the Church: "the Church indeed. . . by receiving the word of God in faith becomes herself a mother. By preaching and Baptism she brings forth sons, who are conceived by the Holy Spirit and born of God, to a new and immortal life. She herself is a virgin, who keeps in its entirety and purity the faith she pledged to her spouse." (Vatican II, Lumen Gentium 64; cf. 63)

In Brief

508 From among the descendants of Eve, God chose the Virgin Mary to be the mother of his Son. "Full of grace", Mary is "the most excellent fruit of redemption" (Vatican II, Sacrosanctum concilium 103): from the first instant of her conception, she was totally preserved from the stain of original sin and she remained pure from all personal sin throughout her life.

509 Mary is truly "Mother of God" since she is the mother of the eternal Son of God made man, who is God himself.

510 Mary "remained a virgin in conceiving her Son, a virgin in giving birth to him, a virgin in carrying him, a virgin in nursing him at her breast, always a virgin" (St. Augustine, Serm. 186, 1: PL 38, 999): with her whole being she is "the handmaid of the Lord" (Luke 1:38).

511 The Virgin Mary cooperated through free faith and obedience in human salvation (Lumen Gentium 56). She uttered her "yes" in the name of all human nature.
      (St. Thomas Aquinas, STh III, 30, 1).

By her obedience she became the new Eve, mother of the living.

Hope this helps,

Your brother in prayer, your brother in Christ,

Mike

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