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Stephen Mansfield wrote:

Hi, guys —

Lately, I have turned to Christ and found myself being drawn to the saints and thus the Catholic Church. Accepting Christ produced a miracle in me as my horrible depression and despair about the world essentially evaporated the instant I accepted Him!

There is one question that nags at me and holds me back in the world. I now know the world and life has meaning, but I can't help but think of all the unfortunate people in the world, the poor, sick, insane, abused, and people who cannot really change their circumstances — those in third world countries.

  • I think to myself, why should I deserve X goods, or X money?

In fact, I feel horrible and very, very guilty when I write down my dreams and goals. it's as if I don't deserve to achieve them.

  • Is there a Catholic answer to this concern?

Basically I'm asking:

How can I finally feel good about my achievements considering all the poor souls in the world without a hope?

Sincerely,

Stephen

  { How can I feel good about my achievements when others are so less fortunate then me? }

Mary Ann replied:

Stephen —

The whole world has hope because of Christ. All those people have the same hope we all do,
a hope for eternal life. God calls them and inspires them and supports them and loves them. Christ said that He Himself identifies with each suffering person, to the point that everything we do to them, we do to Him. There suffering has meaning. One meaning it has, is that it invites us to be charitable with our gifts.

Mary Ann

Mike replied:

Hi, Stephen —

Thanks for the question.

I can tell by what you have said that the Holy Spirit is working in your life.
I've had similar friends have miraculous things happen to them as well.

I used to run a free program that sent Catechisms to seeking Protestants and non-Christians but no longer have the financial or operational means to do this anymore. Nevertheless, if you wish to go deeper, consider buying a cheap copy of the Catechism of the Catholic Church to learn everything we believe as Catholics.

To your question:

We have to remember that the Lord created each one of us for a specific purpose in life.

To fulfill that purpose, the Lord has provided each one of us with various:

  • secular skills
  • educational knowledge
  • religious knowledge
    and sometimes a:
    • home
    • car
    • household appliances for a family and
    • toys for children and the needs they have.

These things are not bad, in themselves, if we acknowledge that they come through the unmerited Grace of Jesus Christ, so we can fulfill our specific purpose in [life|family life].

You may ask:

But what about:

  • the people in Africa
  • the poor
  • those without home or shelter even here in America

As my colleague Mary Ann pointed out: what we have, invites us to share our gifts with others less fortunate.

Although it can be very hard to see Jesus in the face of our enemies, let alone, at times, our family members, we have to strive to remind ourselves that in their face are the needs of Our Lord Himself.

Remember what He tells us from Scripture:

To those much has been given, much will be expected.

You said:

  • I think to myself, why should I deserve X goods, or X money?

Because the Lord has provided it to you to fulfill the specific purpose he has for you.
You discern this purpose through prayer and by contemplating what you would like to do with your career ... assuming it's not sinful : )

In a related question, another person asked us:

Who made mother Teresa's life hard?

I replied:

I would question, whether Mother Teresa thought her life was hard.

  • Why?

Because it was her calling. What she wanted to do.

Compared to most lifestyles in the United States, it was a more difficult life, but:

  • callings are not meant to be compared.
  • callings are meant to be fulfilled.

Hope this helps,

Mike

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