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Heidi G. wrote:

Hi, guys —

I want to become Catholic and I hope to get remarried someday. I was not married in the Catholic Church for my first wedding.

I have been separated from my ex— since 2004 and my divorce was finalized in 2005.
My ex— has been remarried for over a year now and has a child by his new wife.

  • In order to be able to get married in the Catholic Church, do I have to have my previous marriage annulled?

He cheated on me during our marriage.

Heidi

  { To convert and remarry in the Church, do I need my marriage annulled if he cheated on me? }

Mike replied:

Hi, Heidi —

Great to hear from you!

Hope you are enjoyingCatechism of the Catholic ChurchI sent you.

You said:

  • In order to be able to get married in the Catholic Church do I have to have it annulled?

Yes you would, but I don't think there will be any major issues involved.

Your pastor will be happy to assist you with this.

This is how Mary Ann answered a similar question.

Question:
  • Does your religion acknowledge marriages preformed outside of the Church?
    For example, in a courthouse by a Justice of the Peace.

    Mary Ann replied:

    It depends on the religious affiliation of the bride and the groom getting married and any additional marital history involved.

    Baptized Catholics have to marry in the Church for it to be valid.

    A Catholic wedding ceremony involves the celebration of a sacrament, an act of Christ through and in the couple, and this sacrament conforms the couple to the Body of Christ in a special way.

    Since the sacrament requires a clerical witness, and since it is an expression of the Body of Christ, the Church desires it to be celebrated in the presence of the Eucharist, preferably with a Mass, and in the presence of the assembly of the faithful.

Hope this helps,

If there are any questions the Catechism doesn't answer, just use our Ask Us Today link.

Mike

Heidi replied:

Mike,

I am greatly enjoying the Catechism that you sent me. I am planning (if weather cooperates with me) on finding out what I have to do to have my previous marriage annulled.

Like I said, it was not in a Catholic Church and neither one of us were Catholic at the time. I think it might have been a Mennonite Church. It was the Church where some of his family attended.

I have met a wonderful Catholic guy from Catholic Match and I am hoping that it works out.
He knows that I was previously married and he is okay with that.

I hope you are not getting all this snow that we are getting here in Indiana. Brrr . . . I am so tired of the snow.

Have a blessed day and thanks for your answer.

Heidi

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