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Dear Thomas,
In my opinion, there should be no labeling of gay when it comes
to people. There are men that predominantly have an attraction to members
of the same sex, but this is what they feel, not who they are.
Those who have these disordered attractions should probably not marry.
It is important to have a spousal attraction to one's spouse. If that
is missing, then postponement of marriage should be considered. More specifically,
if one cannot consummate their marriage in a truly human way, without
the aid of external stimulators, that is a solid sign that marriage should
not be undertaken.
Needless to say, if there are other ulterior motives for marriage other
than spousal love, it should not be undertaken, as the marriage would not be valid.
Peace,
Paul
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