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Anders,
Finding your way socially is often difficult for any person, never mind for one having Asperger's Syndrome. You are right in noting the teleology of things:
God meant us to be social, to form deep caring relationships, and ultimately to find a mate, . . . if it is according to His Will. Our social instincts drive us to that end. The social norms, however, vary from place to place, and time to time.
In the USA, a century ago it would not be uncommon for men of deep friendship to express their love to one another but today a vast homosexual agenda has clouded, tainted, and even suppressed that affection. The over-sexualization of things has ultimately defiled what was once a more pure way of relating to one another.
I would say focus on developing a couple of close friendships . . . persons that you can trust your feelings with and ones that share your faith, before looking to date or find a mate. There is no Catholic teaching for developing social skills but there are norms for dating in as much as we are called to chastity.
Peace,
Bob Kirby
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